Look good. Looking good is important. This is because it is the nature of human beings to notice someone who is pretty and well presented. You do not have to look and dress like a model to get someone to notice you but you need to give great importance to your cleanliness and put thought into what you wear. Most men like a women who know how to dress appropriately and how to take care of themselves. However, you can do something to improve your looks such as going to your favorite salon to get a new haircut or wearing a bit of make-up. Do not forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some will think you are good-looking and attractive while others may think otherwise. Do not improve your looks just to please others.
Develop the best attitude. Everything is not about looks. For men, your attitude and how you deal with people also matters. The guy will notice you right away if you are nice, kind and friendly. You should be like this not only to your friends but to everyone as well. A nice attitude will improve your beauty even more. The best attitude will make you more attractive, approachable and charming. However, remember that you do not need to be somebody else just to get him to notice you right away. Just be yourself whilst showing off your best attitude. Always work on creating a good personality because this is going to be your best asset to find the perfect mate.
Make realistic goals. This is a game where you can win or lose. Avoid damaging disappointments by creating realistic goals and expectations. There are times when you think you have done everything to get him to notice you only to find yourself devastated due to negative results. To get by, you need to accept that this can happen to anyone. Be open to possibilities. Moreover, do not direct your focus on one guy. Other guys may notice you as well. Give them a chance and open your heart for future possibilities.
Know your limits. Learn how to balance giving your attention to others whilst attracting the person that you like. Respect yourself and others will do the same.]]>
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A relationship can undergo a lot of issues and conflicts. This is also a way to test your commitment with each other. However, there is also the matter of relationship trends. There are couples that prefer to live together without being legally married and there are those who are still in the “dating” stage. Exclusive dating can go on for a long period of time. There are also couples that have already reached the engagement stage. At first glance, it may look like a committed relationship. Nevertheless, it goes a lot deeper than the relationship itself. There are still a lot of things to consider before a relationship can truly become a committed one.
Your relationship must meet the criteria. Being in a committed relationship is not simple. However, the bottom line to a committed relationship is to match your words and actions along with your attitude. Someone who has doubts in a relationship is not committed in terms of attitude. Having thoughts like “I am not sure if he is really the one for me” should be a reason for you to think twice. In addition, your commitment may vary in different levels. The more resolved you are in committing yourself to making your relationship work, the more it will become successful. This will determine your future together as well.
You can be consciously or unconsciously committed to your relationship. To determine which is which, you need to look at your attitude and the actions you make. You can act like a committed partner but without having the thoughts that the other person is already the “one” for you. Moreover, you might think that you want to be committed in your relationship but are still having doubts if you are indeed in the right relationship. This can be very confusing that is why you need to understand what it takes to be in a real committed relationship. This means you have to match your actions with your belief.
You are in a committed relationship when:
You live by your promises. You promise something and make it happen.
You, your partner, friends and family know about the status of your relationship. Everything is clear.
There is faith and honesty.
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What are the things needed to attain intimacy? One of the most important things is the ability to communicate effectively with your partner. To realize its true essence, you must be willing to be transparent and vulnerable which can only be possible through open communication. Being transparent means you have to let your partner see what is in your mind and heart. This includes the negative feelings as well as your flaws. It can be very difficult to share the things you are ashamed of, however, if you are aware that your partner truly loves you, he will accept the negative traits about you and help you become a better person. You should also do the same for your partner. You should also become honest with your opinions and be more willing to share your ideas, fears and desires. To do this, you should be able to communicate effectively. Remember that being honest is not enough. Respect should always be observed as a part of open communication.
For instance, you can tell your partner that you want to be hugged or kissed in a certain way. Another is expressing your opinion about simple things such as who should do the cooking or cleaning. Of course, you should always say it whilst maintaining kindness and respect. Often, we forget the importance of speaking up when trying to avoid arguments. Many of us do not know that we are already reducing the chance of creating intimacy by doing this. Remember that being direct, assertive and polite always gains positive results. In relation to this, you should be able to state you point about what you need and want especially those that make you happy.
You must share a big part of yourself with your partner so that he or she can love you and accept you wholeheartedly. Intimate connection is made through being sincere in sharing ourselves with our loved ones. Remember that strong intimacy is one of the important foundations of a long-lasting relationship. It strengthens through time and effort. Help your partner love you by opening yourself up emotionally to them.